How to Support a Federal Colleague or Loved One Facing RIF Anxiety
federal employment federal layoffs mindfulness at work rif guidance workplace leadership Jul 10, 2025When the Supreme Court green-lit broader Reduction in Force (RIF) measures, many federal employees began doom-scrolling in fear. If your teammate or loved one is among them, here’s how to show up meaningfully.
1. Acknowledge, Don’t Advise
Your instinct may be to reassure them or share solutions immediately. Resist that urge. Instead, send a simple message: “Saw the news. How are you holding up?” Then pause. Let silence stretch. Listening without interruption is often the most powerful support. When people feel heard and seen, they regain internal clarity.
2. Protect Their Dignity Publicly
If they vent during a team meeting or group chat, back them up without deepening their exposure. You might say, “These feelings are valid — let’s take this offline.” This guards their professional reputation while giving them space to process.
3. Share Facts, Not Rumors
Fear thrives in the absence of information. RIFs follow structured procedures: typically a 60-day written notice, retention based on tenure, veterans’ preference, and performance ratings. Appeals often go to the Merit Systems Protection Board. Sending them OPM’s RIF fact sheet shrinks the monster under the bed. Facts calm chaos.
4. Be Their Logistics Buddy
Offer practical help: review their résumé, set up a mock interview over lunch, or connect them with your contacts in the private sector. Each step strengthens their sense of agency in a moment when their control feels stripped away.
5. Remind Them to Use Their Benefits
Many federal employees forget what they’ve earned when panic hits. Gently remind them about:
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Free counseling through the Employee Assistance Program
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Up to 12 weeks of TSP loan deferment if cash flow tightens
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Annual leave conversion calculations for severance
Send direct links and check back later to see if they acted. Small follow-ups show true care.
6. Model Micro-Mindfulness
Invite them for a three-minute walk, guiding a quick 5-4-3-2-1 senses scan: five things they see, four they feel, three they hear, two they smell, one they taste. Grounding in the present moment reduces stress and sharpens focus. Remind them: while the mind ruminates on an uncertain future, choosing to focus on today’s tasks conserves energy and clarity.
7. Keep Purpose Front and Center
Say, “Your service matters, whether it’s here or the next mission. The public still needs what you bring.” Encouraging them to find one thing they’re grateful for each day can re-anchor them in their resilience rather than their fear.
Repeat these approaches until RIF decisions finalize. You’ll become a calm presence in their storm — and that is the essence of leadership.
Legal Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice. While I am a federal employment attorney, this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every situation is unique, and legal outcomes depend on specific facts and circumstances.
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