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Mindfulness After a DRP Decision: You Did the Best You Could

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In the wake of a major federal workforce reshuffle—particularly with agency-wide buyouts and Directed Reassignment Packages (DRPs)—many of you are lying awake wondering: Did I make the right decision? Whether you accepted the payout or stayed put, the second-guessing can be brutal. Let’s ground ourselves in both legal reality and mindful clarity.

 

The Burden Isn’t Yours Alone

Let’s get one thing straight: these DRPs weren’t a cure—they were a bandage over deeper, institutional wounds. Agencies, rather than confronting systemic issues, handed out one-size-fits-all exits under the guise of efficiency. If you're grappling with the consequences of your choice, direct some of that weight back to where it belongs—on failed political leadership, not your shoulders.

 

There Was No “Right” Choice

From a legal and mindfulness perspective, you made the best decision you could with the information you had at the time. That’s not spin—that’s fact. Your choice likely involved a careful mix of financial responsibility, health concerns, mission loyalty, or just plain exhaustion. No spreadsheet or cost-benefit analysis could fully account for your lived reality. And if your mind keeps replaying it, remember: if you could have done better, you would have.

 

How to Move Forward Without Regret

Here are three mindfulness tools you can apply immediately:

1. Name the Feeling, Not the Story
Instead of saying, “I blew it,” notice the physical sensation: “I feel a knot in my chest.” Labeling the emotion disengages it from shame and turns down the mental volume. Consider apps like Headspace or Waking Up for guided support. They're not for everyone, but they’ve helped many federal employees refocus and heal.

2. Anchor to the Present Task
Pause. Take two deep breaths. Focus your gaze on one object—your badge, your coffee mug. Tell yourself: Right now, I’m safe, breathing, and capable. Returning to the present moment isn’t perfection; it’s a practice. Each time you redirect your mind, that’s a win.

3. Re-Choose Your Values
Whether you left or stayed, revisit why: more time with family? Less burnout? Renewed commitment to public service? Reconnecting your choice to your long-term values transforms it from a frozen past decision into an active life path.

 

You’re Still Part of This Community

If you accepted the DRP, invest in what’s next with boldness. If you stayed, keep showing up with clarity. Either way, you belong. You're part of a broader federal community navigating uncertainty, and you don’t have to do it alone.

 

Legal Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice. While I am a federal employment attorney, this post does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every situation is unique, and legal outcomes depend on specific facts and circumstances.

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